How (and who) to expose if OP is not married

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I got the book Allen but haven't had time to read it yet. I am still reading Not Just Friends in the middle of baking two cakes and 40 cupcakes for this weekend :-)

I will have to check out taht movie. I was watching this movie last night called "The Women" with Meg Ryan, Jada Pickett, Debra Messing and one other lady. Meg Ryan's husband cheats on her and she basically goes into a protection phase by going away with her mom and doing NC with her husband (well almost NC). Then she kicks him out of the house after she exposes the affair and then goes NC with him again. Good movie to watch :-)

Things are great today and over the past few days. I feel much better, matter of fact the best I have felt since I moved away. I continue to leave everything in God's hands and with the NC (almost) I keep myself out of the storm that my husband is going threw. I had a great breakfast with my dad and enjoyed the day organizing things (I love when my things are organized even if my emotional life isn't). I did see one of my BIL today that is a complete mess. He is married but cheated on his wife whom he has 4 kids with multiple times and now has a possible child by another woman. He lives with another woman and her kids and sleeps with her as well. He asked me if I moved here, I told him yes, and then he said "well, sometimes things work out and sometimes they don't...marriages just don't work sometimes and you gotta keep it moving." I said well I want my marriage to work.