Honey, I feel every emotion for you w/this situation. Seriously. And, I think that's why it's hard to post to you ABOUT your situation. There is no RIGHT answer to this. There is no RIGHT way to act.
I think you'll know when you're done, if that time comes.
I also think you are hanging on for a very important reason.
But, just for the record, he's really f'ing starting to piss me off.
He is cake - eating to the BAZILLIONTH power. And, frankly, he's just not cute enough. You are an amazing woman. You have the most darling little boy. You have a heart that could love an entire city. And, it he doesn't get off the pot soon, he will have a blondie there to kick his as#!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.