Well she certainly needed to hear every word you said to her.....and probably more. You seem to handle yourself well. I just hope you will continue to stand your ground and whenever she whines about OM not making enough money.....remind her that's the consequenses. Although, you shouldn't have to remind her with words......an all-knowing "look" from you should do as well.
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I also said it was wrong for her to have always had male friends and that she had emotional affairs with them.
And for the life of me, I can't understand why a H would allow his W do have male friends and continue EA's. But I'll tell you this.....if she's always done you that way throughout your M, she probably will never stop. I doubt she would be able to without a lot of therapy b/c it is "herself" that she is unhappy with and she's trying to feel better with these EA's.
I hope you will not cave to her woes and continue to build your life and happiness. I just hope she'll take a long honest look at herself and what she has done to her family.....but she's not ready. She won't admit it b/c she's still talking about "herself" and "her" unhappiness instead of those she left in the dust.
Until she feels remorse for the pain "she" has caused instead of just thinking of how she was unhappy while M, she won't be ready to come back......not even close.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
