Anne, Some additional questions. I've finished your first posts, I readi it a couple times.
Have you read DR? What other "self improvement/ marriage improvement" resources have you tried/read? What are your goals? What are your"more of the same" behaviors? What are the core issues you have with you? What are the things you have worked on/identified in IC? What is your health status? (It seemed your weight gain was more emotional/stress related historically by your posts. How did you find out about PCOS and what is the status/treatment plan? I'm sure its contributed to your weight gain but I' curious how it all timed out) What issues have you identified with your H? What do you do to GAL? What are you doing for you?
And I want to know why you want to save your marriage??
Lets get some background and give everyone here a chance to help you with the details - not get defensive - we don't know you well yet - but we want too - lets make it happen!!!
Hugs
T
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