Is she seeking treatment? I don't know how to convince my H to stay in IC. He cancelled his last session and doesn't think he needs to go back. It is just so frustrating to watch...but at the same time..what can you do for someone like this?
Has your W always displayed these symptoms? My H would display these symptoms 10% of the time...now these symptoms are the majority of his personality...somewhere along the way..these traits became dominant. What is the success rate of treatment even if he committed to sticking with an IC? It is so hard for me to relate to what he is feeling. I want to just shake him and say snap out of it. Could his inability to not feel for other people cause his depression? What approach do you take with someone like this? I have been detaching and pretty much 'dim' with him...am I abandoning him? or is being there for him enabling him?
I am torn between helping my H, saving my marriage, and self preservation.
