HI Anne, I still haven't gotten through your entire first post... but I feel the need to weigh in....
SLOW DOWN.... HOLY CRAP...
Noone here is attacking you. Rob gives some of the BEST advice on this board and you would do well to STOP being defensive and listen. For what it's worth (FWIW) I categorically agree with everything he said. We are ALL here to help you and give you the feedback you need to improve. The assumptions you made - pointed out by Greek - are simply YOURS. Read your post again... THATS how you TRULY feel about yourself - Time for a reality check....
Now the good news... ITS TOTALLY WITHIN YOUR POWER TO CHANGE THAT...
If you want to change things - you - your marriage - your life - you need to be willing to listen to people who want to help you!
Flowmom is right - as $H!TTY as D is - at your age and situation its the "best" it could be.... You need to face the REALITY of your situation.. soon...
I'll post more shortly... Please be ready to take the advice for what it truly is - help...
In the meantime - if you are on here - please answer me this...
Why do you want to save your marriage?
T
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