Oh BH that makes sense the business. Actually h and I had a business together before. My h is really a smart business owner, I know from past experience and if I would pick anyone to go into business with it would be him, but can see how that might look from the outside. Ha Ha!
Just focusing on myself and the kids and putting the past behind. You are right there is NO good timing.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
And braveheart, I didn't know you were still around...it's been over two years since I last posted here and unfortunately I'm back.
Any updates on OldFool and Kikisum?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
MWG, I was reading your signature and it's similar to mine. Except for the durations.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
MWG, I was reading your signature and it's similar to mine. Except for the durations.
Interesting, huh?
H has never said he wanted a D or that it is not going to work.
I am too wrapped up with my own problems to think about his. My transmission was so badly damaged that my car will not be ready until next week, Monday or Tuesday.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
JTB, Yes I suppose I did. It wasn't overnight, it was gradual. We never addressed the core issues when we got back together despite my trying to get her interested in reading books or going to counseling etc. We just masked it all with worldly things, I tried to do as much family things as possible. Bought a camper, a truck and started going to camping trips and we had fun for the most part. She's been unemployed for over a year now and I think that as well as my nagging her to get some house projects done etc caused her to snap one day.
MWG, good luck with the car.
I tell ya, despite having endured 2 years of this the loneliness and the quietness of the house is still the hardest thing to deal with. I miss my D terribly.
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Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Romeo, I was skeptical when she admitted no wrong nor offered an apologies. When they are not truly remorseful, they haven't gone through. Most don't come out, a lot of people disagree with me on that point, but my logic is simple, if this MLC journey is to grow and learn, they must accept responsibility for their actions, many are not willing to do that, therefore they will continue doing as they have done.
Recovering from a recent illness and still looking for a job.
Child #1 is enrolled full time for college this fall as is Child #2. Child #3 is going to spend her summer in Boston with my SIL.
S19 visited H a week ago. All I know is lots of beer in the fridge. Glad to see OW can afford his habit of smokes, beer, and heartburn meds that cost about $30 per month.
Car was in the shop and in need of a transmission and then it was in this week for starter problems.
Enjoy this weekend with loved ones!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
