ok it has been one week to the day when he moved out. He asked me to go with him and stay the night at his place last weekend. I did. Then went home, he took me- then he stayed most of the afternoon- we had intimate realtions, then later he left to go back to his house. The two days following he called Alot- ten all of the sudden it stopped. Of course since i am thinking that we are working on our marriage- i got nervous, confused etc. I called after not hearing from him for 24 hrs. it was not a great interaction- he seemed put out and pissed. I have not verbally talked to him since. I know in DB'ing- not supposed to chase- etc. I did email him an internet link of one of his hobbies- it was an article. It started dialogue- but short and indifferent replies. I guess at this point- at times i feel he is lying about workin on things - perhaps he is trying to just ease the pain slowly?????? or does he just need space???? i dont know. I guess i just need to know how or what to do to not feel the urge to call or email- and if we are working on the relationship- then how much is too much communication when he is living outside the home- or do i sit and wait for him to call. It seems one way if i wait for him to call- that is if we are trying to work on things....thats a lot to digest lol. any suggestions?
me- 36 years old H- 38 Together 15 married 12 1/2 Separated 3/5/2010 NO PA's or EA that i know of.
