still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

I have heard your opinions! Thank you. I will feel it out tonight and see if it feels forced or natural to bring it up. I just think that if he thinks I am lying about my reason for crying that he will think this whole way I am acting is just an act. And I won't be talking about an ultimatum. I think I might start out with "I don't want to lie to you about why I was so sad...it was more than just my birthday." and carry on.

But as long as your stuck in this hell... I have nothing to offer. {{hugs}} I am never far away. And once you get moving again I will be there. But I cannot be here with you.

I know- I don't post when I think the person won't heed either! ((Cbug))