An affair is difficult for both sexes, but, for men, there are other social implications that can be embarrassing or emasculating. However, when you get past the hurt, you realize as TRUSTING wrote, that it's their issues...no yours...that, yes, it's about them. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;