-I really don't appreicate you saying we dont have "real" problems. We do have real problems. My husband had an affair and I also found out last month he has been seeing prosititues for the past 4 years, he has dropped the ILYBINILWY bomb 3 times. -As far as being overweight I really wish people wouldn't act like I'm choosing to be overweight- I am trying everything. It is very hurtful. I have seen numerous doctors over the past 1.5 years to try and help me. I used to be a petite 120 lbs.
Dog poop and picking up the dog from the vet and a lazy husband that doesn't vacuum under the bed aren't your problems.
Here's your problem, ready....
Your self-esteem, it sucks. You have none or very little.
Why do you pursue your husband who has cheated on you and has slept with prostitutes. I'll tell you why? Because he rejects you. You can't understand why he doesn't love you and why he isn't attracted to you and it bothers you to no end.
Divorce busting is one thing but you are pursuing someone who has no real value and someone who thinks that you have no value.
You work two jobs to prove to yourself that you can do it, that you're worth the effort, you want to show the world how strong you are but none of this is working.
Being overweight isn't helping either, I'm sure it makes you feel depressed and sad on a regular basis, been there, done that.
You really want that husband back, you want him to be all he can be?
Drop him, reject him, leave him. Stop pursuing him.
Or continue doing what you're doing and continue posting umpteen million pages on your thread about why he doesn't love you and why he doesn't help around the house and why he just doesn't get it.
