- We do have a housekeeper. - I have lots of time to myself.
OK, reality check.
You have a housekeeper and you ask your husband to vacuum, why? I wouldn't vacuum my home if I had a housekeeper, that's what I pay the housekeeper to do. So you are essentially complaining about..... I have no idea, maybe just to hear yourself speak. Listen if that's the case just be honest, everyone goes through a fair amount of self-pity at the beginning.
As for having lots of time to yourself, if that's the case, why were you complaining that you had no time to do EVERYTHING because you had two jobs and all the other excuses you mentioned?
