You are a MAN as in you are a GROWN UP. It has nothing to do with gender. Not one thing. It has to do with being able to function as an adult.
If you are a woman I would have said be a WOMAN as in be a GROWN UP.
Nobody told you not to express your feelings. You should however really *want* to find out why your feelings are so filled with hate and vengeance.
This is not the first time you said that all men do is scratch themselves and watch football. Nobody said they did. Most men don't stay on unemployment for 2 years and play the role of full time dad while their partner works for pay under the table. Right? Stop turning this into a gender or stereo type deal. All of any of us are trying to help you with is to see why your feelings are so hateful and why you are not doing anything to change that. Each post you sound more and more out there and as you can see everybody else seems to have given up or decided to sit back and watch the show.
I am very away what an "eye for an eye" means. I am also aware it does nothing to heal or help you grow. As I said, you pull these crazy and romanticized ideas out of the air and somehow they make it all okay.
