This is why I dont like posting on forums. I dont mind opinions and criticism but I dont like it when I people start acting like I'm I have no life and I'm a horrible person and I just sit around and eat bon bons and I'm lazy because my dog poops in the house. I can't do everything and that is the point! I am not home every second of every day to see what my husband is doing with the dog! I work out and eat right and I'm still fat but everyone assumes I'm lazy and need to get a life!
I am going through a very, very difficult time right now. I have spent years working hard so my husband could have this wonderful career all the while thinking it would eventually be my turn. I stood back while he did his thing, never questioned him, . And now that it is my turn he has an affair, cheats on me and checks out of our marriage like I am trash. I understand I need to work on myself and that is what I'm trying to do.
I'm sorry my problems aren't big enough issues for you flowmom. I guess once I have children I will understand what true problems are.
