I dont think everyone has read all of my posts. I wish people would read everything before they commented. The reason I asked all those intials things about the dog was because I was using it as an example as I was confused about a few things pertaining to 180 and how I should handle it.

-I really don't appreicate you saying we dont have "real" problems. We do have real problems. My husband had an affair and I also found out last month he has been seeing prosititues for the past 4 years, he has dropped the ILYBINILWY bomb 3 times.
-As far as being overweight I really wish people wouldn't act like I'm choosing to be overweight- I am trying everything. It is very hurtful. I have seen numerous doctors over the past 1.5 years to try and help me. I used to be a petite 120 lbs.
-My 2nd job is my dream job. I own a photography business. I have been trying to work on that so I can quit my full time job. I could not quit my full time job and just persue my photography business right now - I would not make enough money.
-We do have a housekeeper.
-I do go to individual counseling and so does my husband. We have also been to marriage counseling twice.
-And I do have a really great circle of friends and I do have a life! I dont see my husband basically at all Wed-Sat becuase he works at night and sleeps during the day - I have lots of time to myself.