How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

I called the therapist today. She does not recommend individual sessions, she likes to address both H/W. Her approach is not to reconcile but rather get a better understanding of where both H/W stand on the current state of their R and how to make the process easier whether it be reconcile, separate, divorce.

Of course with the attitude my W has right now is to separate I don't need anyone, especially on a professional level, suggest that leaving is the answer.