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[awest1217]

I called H to ask about pizza. He said he couldn't go because a friend from college, who I never heard of and can't google, died in North Carolina so he is leaving tonight to go there. He won't be back until late Sunday or maybe Monday, he is not sure. Then I asked about moving and he said he already moved his stuff into his parents garage, but not to stay there, just until he gets back. I said but then you leave for Indy for work, and won't be back until Wednesday so where are you planning on staying that night? He said he didn't know. He just couldn't decide. I said well you kind of have to. You either sleep here or sleep at your parents. He said he didn't know and won't decide. He said it wasn't fair that I am making this the end all. I told him he doesn't understand that he has done this to me for a year and I deserve to move on.

So there you have it. He is gone, probably with OW, to North Carolina so he doesn't have to decide. I am going to pack his stuff up tomorrow, and I told him he needs to pick it up by next Friday. By then I can talk to his parents and let them know that I will be bringing his stuff next Saturday if he doesn't come get it and ask them what they would like to do with the bigger stuff that is family stuff.

This is really hard, but I have to remember....I deserve better and although I set the ultimatum...I did not do anything wrong. I have tried for a year and I deserve to move on...I deserve this...I deserve better...I have to remember...So Hard