Kelly- His affairs don't necessarily require marriage counseling right now. Especially based on what you mentioned about him looking bad. I strongly suggest anyone who has had an affair and is still interested in working it out with their betrayed spouse so seek individual counseling first. Maybe it is depression or MLC but one thing is for certain, you are not responsible for the actions he chooses. Sure you may have contributed to some of his behavior (those are the things you are trying to get out of him).
As for the sex thing, I know its not the same but Im sure you could take matters into your own hands (Literally.....) Sorry if thats too graphic.
Married 10 Together 13 ILYB 1/4/2010 Separated: 1/4/2010 Moved back in 1/28/2010 Reconciled 3/14/2010
