It does seem counterintuitive to not make contact..and I am not sure that it works in all situations...but I can tell you that my H is the one making contact the past few days. It feels good to not be the one pursuing. I want this to continue so I am not going to change what is working. I would stick with something long enough to see if it is actually making a difference. If it doesn't work, you can always change your approach. But definitely give it time.
