Ugh (((Gardener))). No one enjoys the anticipation of a "talk" in a situation where there has been a lot of hurt.
Can you set up a plan of somewhere to go afterwards? To meet up with a friend in a cafe or over to someone else's house? You could cancel if you don't feel like it, but it might be good self-care to invite some warmth into your life after the anticipated "deep freeze" interaction with your X. If there is a sting tonight, let someone else help you soothe it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
