Some of these thigns effect me. Him throwing his cigaretts on our front law and not picking them up (now my house looks like trash), him now picking up the dog or taking it outside, now my carpets are ruined. Leaving trash sitting in our backyeard for over a month, now my house smells and my backyeard looks like the junk. These things do effect me. So I'm supposed to do everything?! Take out the trash, etc?! Are you going to create more hours in a day?
I'll make you a deal, I'll create more hours in your day when you stop making excuses about everything.
Quit your 2nd job, you just confirmed that you both have enough money to live comfortably, the time you saved from not having to work your 2nd job now allows you to do the things at home that he's not taking care of.
You keep putting this all on him.
I'm just trying to open up your eyes to all of this.
He doesn't want this anymore.
He's given up.
You just don't like it.
Why does he get to be lazy if you're not lazy?
He's not you.
He doesn't want to be you.
You want him to be more like you.
And you're not seeing it because you're blind, he doesn't want to be like you. You aren't fun. You are work. All you do is work, you have 2 jobs, and when come home you complain about everything that needs to be done. You nag and you control (or you attempt to at any rate).
