Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I was reading a stich from last year and in were three phases the LBS goes through if they are to be success with SO.

1. pursueing
2. detaching
3. letting go- accepting either outcome

It was stated that if you can't get to phase 3 there would be no hope. And even if you get there it is still a small shot that the M will be reconciled.

I am now seeing the truth behind this statement.

I believe now I am slowly merging into the third phase.

It is challenging but necessary in order for the M to work.

The next 2 weeks will be big for me.
Hopefully it will be a turning point.