I'm very impressed how much you have learned about yourself - that's the "positive" you have to look at. Don't over-analyze WH & OW relationship. I know, I have the tendency to do the same thing. Keep improving YOU - HE will see your changes and that's your best weapon in these circumstances
Originally Posted By: Cyrena
OW are never less damaged--they're just damaged in different ways. For one thing, no emotionally healthy woman would get involved with a married man. For another, depressed men do not seek out partners who are in a better space than they are: they are attracted to the same negative energies in the OW that they feel in themselves.
I very much agree with this. And don't forget that he will BRING HIS OWN ISSUES into that relationship. They may not have the same problems you had in your marriage but his MLC doesn't just disappear OW is just a band-aid, he will have to go through the rest of the MLC stages eventually.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
