The day of the appt comes and I wake up extra early to get her to her hair appt. I come home and start working (I work from home). At 1:45pm husband is still not awake (this is very typcial, now that I dont "bother" him he sleep or stays in our bedroom until 4 or 5pm); however he knew the dog had an appt . I ended up going up and waking him up and askinghim if was still planning to pick her up. He was late the appt but he got her. It just makes me so angry. Am I not even supposed to ask him to do things with 180? Should I have just gone to get the dog? He is just so lazy.
You asked the question so I'm going to answer it, NO you shouldn't have asked him to do anything. Nagging is not a 180 for you, you've probably asked him in the past to do things and he's probably disappointed you several million times, I can tell by the tone of your post.... "He is just so lazy". When you talk about someone like that, that is history speaking, not someone you just met the other day.
The dog appointments were all on you, you shouldn't have bothered asking him for anything. But you did, just to get him involved and what it did get you... more disappointment and anger because he's lazy.
It's like asking a zebra to remove their stripes, yeah sure, I'll do that right now.
