Serenity - I agree w/Miss Blunt, probably because I am, too! LoL
Let your L handle the "this is what I want" stuff. If you are so inclined, just let him know that you'll be filing! (Make sure you're wearing heels when you write it, too. Heels make me feel empowered!)
Done!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.