Glad that you waited as well...

NEVER ask that question UNLESS you are READY to move on...

There will be no truthful answer based on facts- it will be emotions that dictate the answer...and the answer will be one coming from someone cornered, hurt, and afraid.

From the beginning of my sitch, myself and my family thought it's an easy task:

Do you want to work on the M?

Do you want a D?

It's only one or the other...

Now that I better understand WAS and the pain WAS is in- THERE ARE NO ANSWERS...and that needs to be OK w/ LBS...until it is no longer OK and you become the WAS


DARK