I like it, Gardner. I'm going to start doing that, myself (what if somebody did whatever to my Autistic kid? I surely wouldn't let it pass!).
You sound good, HM. Lots of little epiphanies lately!
yes--lots of epiphanies! when one is ready, it happens. I tried and tried to push to get to this point but without success--I wasn't ready. and while I knew these things in my head, now I know them at a deeper level, which makes all the difference.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012