The other thing I am confused about is there are certain situations that I dont know what to do. I am going to use the following as an example but things like this happen on a weekly basis. I also would like to add that I work 50+ hours a week and I also own a business (two jobs). My husband works 4 days a week (at night) for a total of 20 hours a week:
Made appointment for the dog to get a haircut and have yearly checkup. I asked husband if I dropped off dog in the morning if he could pickup from hari appt and take to vet appt (my husband works at night, I made appt for 2pm - I work during the day - since he is home I figure he can pick her up so I dont have to take off work). Anyway, he agrees.
The day of the appt comes and I wake up extra early to get her to her hair appt. I come home and start working (I work from home). At 1:45pm husband is still not awake (this is very typcial, now that I dont "bother" him he sleep or stays in our bedroom until 4 or 5pm); however he knew the dog had an appt . I ended up going up and waking him up and askinghim if was still planning to pick her up. He was late the appt but he got her. It just makes me so angry. Am I not even supposed to ask him to do things with 180? Should I have just gone to get the dog? He is just so lazy.
Another example: We had to have our carpets clean because my dog is not well housetrained. We are both to blame but it especially annoys me because my husband will just sleep all day and not take her out and she will go all over the carpets. Anyway, I set up the appt. I had to work very late the night before they were suppsoed to come (until around 11am). I asked him if he could vacuum while I was at work, pick up the dog poop under our bed (lovely, I know) becuase I wouldnt have time to do it before the carpet people came. I come home from work that night and he literally vacuumed a strip of carpet i our bedroom - our dog had recently destoyed a feather pillow and there were feathers still all under the bead, etc. Dog poop was still not picked up. due to 180 I did not say anything and proceeded to clean until 1am so our carpets could be cleaned. Is that what I should have done?
Does anyone understand now what I mean when I say I feel lik I'm being walked all over. I feel like with 180 I am just not supposed to say anything. But honestly I'm so sick of this [censored] - it happens all the time .
