I had an IC meeting Wed. and he told me I should ask for a direct answer. I then Ihad a phone session w/ my DB coach Thursday and she told me NOT to ask that question.
I am so glad I waited. I don't want to push her further away.
My coach gave me good infomation and I will be putting that into affect immediately.
Yoga class was pretty cool. It is an awesome work out. I am glad I went and I am looking forward to next week's class.
I am in a much better mind frame this week and truely understand what DBing is about and know how to work on my sitch. Before I understood what it is all about but didn't know how to put it in action.
Even though we will be seeing a mediator that doesn't mean were through.
It is just another opportunity for me to show her my changes and maturity about the problems.
I can't wait to have my wife back in my arms.
I am seeing things in a new light and honestly believe things will work out.
Given the chance I will have a great M, better than any dreams we had before.
I will not take anything for granted and will truely be there for my W when she needs me.
We have met yet to discuss the division of asset and the such but I know how to show her I am able to handle this meeting with dignity and respect.
I post if anything new arises.
Thanks, Again for checking in on me.
Gr8!
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