My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

yeah--I think I'm the feminine equivalent of the Nice Guy.

those natural, automatic responses are tough to break. I mean, I certainly grasp the concept of "do something different if you want different results"--I think that's the motivation part. I think there's also a skill component, and that's what concerns me. how do you get those skills? what are those skills?!