Are you still attracted to your Ex?

[elscotto]

Wow am I glad you all responded to this thread. I was going through torture for a long time and it seems like everything just snapped and its like a light went on for me. I no longer give a crap what the Ex does--sure she can still hurt me but only if I allow it and don't recognze her behavior for what it is--something I can't control.

I am laughing again. I find humor in things and I am pretty sure I am a lot of fun to be around. My world is good--my businesses are doing fine and I also work a corporate sales job that is going really good now. I am exercising 4-5 times a week and I think i am going to do a triathalon on Father's Day this year.

If I could bottle up the cause of my attitude snapping toward the right direction I could sell it for millions. I wish I knew the trigger. Even the things I worried most about such as my ex telling my sons that she was "now going to date the OM" or her showing up in public with the OM doesn't seem to bother me. Its like--whatever.

I think she is drinking a lot these days because her skin looks kinda washed out with a reddish tint. I never noticed that 3 months ago. She doesn't appeal to me physically these days.

I love being in control of me like I haven't been for 6 mos. Life is Good!