There sure are a lot of differing views on how to handle different sitches here lately. Kind of discouraging when people shoot down my ideas and I try my hardest to see where their opinion comes from.
Cautious, don't be discouraged. Keep posting. If someone doesn't agree with your ideas... Don't take it personally. If you need clarification: Ask WHY. I'm sure there are a lot of people that don't agree with my viewpoints. And yes, it's discouraging when you see people making mistakes and suffering when they didn't have to.
It's part of the learning process. Everyone has different experience and is at different levels. You can't force anyone to do anything. They will make their decisions (right or wrong) based on their own perception at the time.
You may find someone saying the same thing as you did earlier, but that person had a different presentation to you. The way they write it resonates better with the thread owner at the time. I've had this happen with me. Don't take it personally.
Remember: The ultimate goal is to help the thread owner.
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