You handled yourself EXTREMELY well, under some obviously very difficult circumstances. Seriously, you need to tip a glass to yourself tonite, at a job-well-done. That was tough, for sure, and it's even tougher to "stuff" your natural instincts, and instead do what you know MUST be done, tactically.
btw, I don't believe her for a skinny minute that she broke things off with OM. She's either lying to you, or HE dumped HER (both very much "script"). I think you will find that their relationship will resurface again, after some socially-more-acceptable length of time.
