Thanks Coach & maynard - I know the right thing to do, and I won't contact her. It's just hard to not reach out to someone I love when I see them hurting. But it's 4th and goal, and I can't take a step back now.

Jeez maynard, like 9/11 wasn't a bad enough day already. Mine dropped the bomb on 1/27. Worst. Day. Ever. One of my best friends died on 1/17 too. Pretty crappy year, all told. Bad news seems to come in threes, what's next?