It's taken 10 months to convert things over -- although I did drag my feet because I truly thought all of this was temporary.
That's good, so long as you are doing this for yourself, and not in anticipation or reaction to what stbxw is doing, make things now about you, and what you want, and not from a place of caring what stbxw is doing, or how she will respond or act. I think you are, just want to reinforce that.
By the way, I should have added to my comment, if you need a transcript of 'What Not To Do (TM)' from someone slightly ahead of you, just use my sitch and do the opposite..
Mostly kidding there, but finding some things to chuckle about during this time is really important as well..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
