Wife in love with another man, I need help

[Jonpen]

Well she has an appt to go to an attorney and file on the 19th. She told me what she is proposing and I'm ok with it. I don't want the divorce but since I'm being forced to anyway I might as well get the best deal I can.

She is proposing joint custody but I have the kids 1 extra day per week then she does because of her work schedule, she is going to continue to pay my cell phone, gas, food etc...until I am out of school. i get half of all the assets, I also get to be the primary residential parent. I will have to move back in with my dad but he has a huge house so there will be plenty of room.

I still don't want the D but I have come to accept it. It takes 2 to save a marriage and she is not even willing to try, she thinks by making herself single the OM will want to do the same. This OM is a lowlife loser and I don't want him anywhere near my kids. He is in AA classes, been married 3 times and is only 33, also he is big into witchcraft.