Man I am sorry to hear your set back there. Again I feel guilty about how well we are doing.
Remember from the weekend, love is a choice. It does not magically appear.
As I had said in my original post you can't fall in love with someone you are simply sitting on a bus with or in a coffee shop together.
I would have to say my wife made the choice to love again and then her attraction to me awakened.
It was and is, night and day based on the choice to love and the choice to give it a chance for a myriad of reasons.
And I agree with Lotus, as usual, you do find her attractive, no one forced you to marry her and have kids with her. If she was hideous even the somewhat unique courtship would not have developed.
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love" M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years 1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08 2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10
