F that. OM has no right to come over. If he steps one foot on your lawn. You tell him to step off or you will call the police. Make sure you have backup with you and your phone in your hand.

One foot. As soon as he does that you call the police.

Your house has suffered enough disrespect. Do not tolerate any more.

P.S. I do not think you will see him at all. But prepare for the worst

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