given the fact that the old sage took the role of "mother" in the old r (just basing that on your prior statements about you feeling like you were the only adult in the old r) it may be that he forgot to cancel and therefore didn't mention it to avoid being given the "why haven't you cancelled that yet" speach (if in fact that is something the old sage would have done. is it?)
yes I know, if that IS the case then it certainly isn't fair that h isn't allowing you the opportunity to show him that you aren't that gal anymore...but in time...
so try not to look at it as h being dishonest...just try to look at it as h still trying to keep himself safe.
Quote: does he not mention the aol because he's using it to interact with ow or someone else?
I'm not even going to humor you with rationalizing this irrational statment. shame on you!