I thought the move was taking place back in Feb at one point and I made it clear to W that out of respect it should be W and MIL only...she claimed to be willing to abide by that.

I've had one previous sitch back before I got sober where my XGF was moving out of her place...I just happened to be nearby and could see the moving van...there was no indication that she was going to move at the time...I tried to recover some belongings and met her OM, now H, it was a terrible experience...

My current sitch has been so messy- I can see why everyone suggests being prepared for the worst...I don't understand how things sour so much, I guess you are right that it is based off of anger, frustration and contempt...


DARK