It's complicated but it's mine #28

[JCJ]

(((Kat)))

Gosh, what an awful couple of days. It really amazes me what these WAS will do sometimes. You have dealt with all of this so well!

[kat727]

Thanks, I feel a bit better about it all today. I am leaning towards not calling him on it. He already knows how upset I was. I think their goal was to get me to lose the kids. Some of the things they said were so out of the realm of neglect or abuse...I don't know. They are a pretty sick pair of people. They are welcome to each other.

D9 got sick one more time during the night. I don't think she had anything left. She still isn't feeling great but keeping her home I am hoping she will rest and get better.

I was nippy at K the other day but didn't go in to any detail. so last night I sent him an email just giving him the basics as why I was so witchy. I haven't heard from him about that or my taxes. He is out of town at a board meeting so I really don't expect to hear from him until later today or tomorrow. Maybe we have both stepped back a bit...

kat

[kat727]

I was relieved that D9 was feeling better. She slept quite a bit which I know she needed. She is better now.

Imagine my dismay though at 12:30 when S17 yells up at me that S14 just got sick on their bedroom floor! Just one more day and he wouldn't have missed any school. Hopefully this doesn't run through us all.

kat

[mishka422]

ICK! That's no good.

Buy stock in gatorade! I hope the rest of you don't get this, it sounds truly nasty.

[kat727]

I think this has just been the week from hell. I don't know how else to describe it. I wish I had spring break and was off all next week!

I guess we all have to play the cards we are dealt but I really don't like any of mine. Can we shuffle the cards and deal them again??

kat

[mishka422]

Preferrably 5 card STUD! STUD being the operative word there.

[kat727]

Which brings K to mind. I was kind of short with him on a "chat" the other day. Part of it I am sure was hormones, part of it being ignored and little did I know the huge stress of having a complaint filed against me.

He has been out of town but sent me a mini-novel of things for Branson. Asked if he could have dinner with us one of the two nights that we are there. Also said he would work on my taxes today. I so want them done.

Anyway, I got done with my first scarf for D11 and started on the one for D9. Easy first things to make.

When I left today for work S14 was out. I am hoping he just sleeps and doesn't try to eat until I get home. Oh and ex is denying left and right that he had anything to do with the complaint and assures me that his girlfriend didn't either. I don't buy it but I am done discussing for now.

I did talk to the social worker today and the complaint is closed!! Yeah!!

One good thing in all of this isn't bad.

kat

[MichelleLT]

Hang in there chica. Hope you all feel better soon.

AND SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy the complaint is closed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[karen43]

Glad to hear it's over!!!!!!!! Most likely he or the skank did file it; some of the info they gave sounds like it to me. He's too embarrassed to admit it I guess.

I hope you will think about not letting him into your house and keeping strong boundaries. Limited conversations just about the kids, etc. Like the mailman tip you gave me remember?

[kat727]

Believe me I have no problem treating him like the mailman!! I really didn't want to discuss it with him or even all the accusations against me. So hard to believe that someone would do that to someone else.

He doesn't believe it would be her because she knows that would effect him too. Yeah what ever. Not even going to think about that.

Busy trying to plan out my 2 day adventure. I know that maybe doesn't sound like a lot but S17 really doesn't want to take more time off than he needs to since he is paying for stuff on his car and saving for college. Sounds like he is becoming responsible.

kat