I forgot whose sitch it was that I read when the LBS -- a man -- went in to confront the WAS as he was picking up his 9-year-old. He just wanted to ask why she was ruining his life.
Unfortunately, that would be me...
As far as the finances, you are in control of what is immediately in front of you, and you sound like your doing a good job.
I have found that you are not as in control as you think you are, even with those, so don't be surprised as things pop up, and y our stbxw does things that are completely out of the norm, and unpredictable.
Accepting that for what it is does help, and it sounds like your on top of that.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
