1. Smile - widely, proudly. 2. Give someone you somewhat know an unexpected compliment "Wow, those are some really great shoes!" Make sure it's a genuine compliment. 3. Repeat step 2 for at least 3 days. This person will feel more comfortable around you, and you will soon have a "water cooler" relationship - where you engage in some small talk. 4. Ask about new friend's hobbies and interests. If you share one (going to movies, playing poker, reading) find a way to do it together (invite them to a movie with you, invite them over for a low stakes game - bring your own chocolate coins - start a book club). 5. If they say no, ask again in a week.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
