I see your H is doing the same thing as my H. Someone pointed out to me that it is the depression part of the MLC. The are screwed up in the head. Keep distancing yourself and remember that it is "not about you"! I think that is going to be my new mantra! lol! I can handle the distance from H toward me and I think you are there too! It is the distance that our H's are putting between them and their children that hurts so bad!
You are doing very well so just keep doing what you are doing! Be the best Mom and kind to yourself!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing