Meghunny, my suggestion to you is that it YOUR bed too... Thats where you are comfortable and probably get the most rest. Which is needed.. Its him who doesnt want to be there, then he goes to the couch. YOU STAY IN YOUR BED!!.. It doesnt mean you need to be all cuddly and stuff. You on your side, and he on his.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)