Ok it might sound a bit scary and yes you are in danger of getting rejected but how about you suggest going for a drink together just the two of you, even say now I'm busy I don't want to miss time with you how about a catch up drink?
Honestly if he turns you down flat maybe it's time to move on, but who knows some times a bit of bravery is required!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!