yeah, as you know, its very important to stay consistant... that is one of the hardest things to do... and im sure it will get alot more difficult for me here in a few days when he is home... but necessary.
Dont feel like you need to make it "easier" for her...dont be a doormat either... really take heed to that list of dont's... did you say you have read the books? I would really advise you to order divorce remedy... I ordered mine from this website and it got here in less than a week and I am overseas too. That would give you 5 weeks to read it and equip yourself with a game plan for when you get home.
Me: 25 H:25 M: 2yrs T: 4yrs No Kids Bomb: 11 Feb 10 Newcomers Story