OIN- I have to agree w/ Allen...you are extrememly fortunate to be in the place you're in. TRUST ME...it can be much worse...and not to stress you out but alot of it has to do w/ how you handle things going forward.
Jere's the beauty of it...you REALLY dont have to do much!!! Work your 180's, validate...and that's pretty much it. The hard part is being able to NOT take things personally-
I've learned an awful lot from reading other threads and seeing what didn't help me and my WAW.
When my WAW was out, I called her like crazy- WRONG When I would do everything and she would pick out what i didn't do , I let her know it was unfair- WRONG I pursued- WRONG I initiated R talk/ PT- WRONG I invited her to C- WRONG
when I didnt do R talk or initiate PT and didn't invite her- things got better...the last straw was her sleeping out w/ other men...I couldnt take it anymore and flipped/contacted MIL.
