Dude....are you kidding me???? Look, whatever you are saying to your "live-in wife", you are only digging your hole deeper and re-enforcing her urge to get out of dodge. Speaking the truth is great...honesty is the best policy...but...what you are telling her, you are NOT getting her back. You are not spicing up your love life/intimacy, ....whatever you think you are saying and thinking in your mind....I don't know....she is not going to buy it.
Good luck with your approach to this sitch....and if you come out on the other side smelling like roses....please...PLEASE write a book on it!
BTW, my girlfriend is Canadian...she is still shaking her head...
