I don't want to take off in a rant like I've seen others do, but is it wrong to start feeling angry? I know these are her feelings and I can't do anything about it. However, I can't help but to start thinking that she's being selfish. i guess from I've read about the WAS there is some selfishness involved.
I've spent so much time feeling sad and depressed, which i still do, but now I'm starting to get pissed. The things she's said to me since she dropped the bomb is so dam hurtful and wrong. I know I haven't been perfect, but you show me a marriage that's perfect, and I'll pull a monkey out of my butt. I know I've been a good man, husband and father, but what i need to realize is this is about her not me.
My ex-wife is engaged, and she told me it took her 17 1/2 years to find someone after we divorced. she said hes the first person in 17 1/2 years that treats her as good as I did, and does the things for her I did. I guess i bring this up because I've spent all this time bashing myself, and I'm really not a bad person. I definitely have some issues to work on, but I'm a good person.
Last edited by tbart01; 03/12/1007:31 AM.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept
